When the job title and role are gone, what remains of you?
I have met many CEOs and company owners who believe that their legacy lies in the company they have led. In strategies, results, and figures.
But that is not true.
Companies change. They are sold, merged, restructured, or even go under. The position you hold today may be gone tomorrow.
I know this from my own experience.
I have seen how suddenly everything I had built up was gone. How you hand over your business card—and then you're just Peter.
That was one of the most difficult moments of my life, and certainly also for many colleagues who believed in me.
But looking back, it was also one of the most valuable.
Because I already knew it before, but then learned it the hard way from my own experience:
Leadership is borrowed power.
It never really belongs to you. You are allowed to exercise it for a time—in the best case, with responsibility, respect, and humanity.
What remains is not the role.
It is the mark you leave on people.
How you treated them.
How you took responsibility—even when it was difficult.
How you got back up after setbacks.
In Japan, people celebrate an impressive, artistic ritual: 𝙆𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙨𝙪𝙜𝙞
Broken vases are repaired with gold. In the process, the broken parts become the most beautiful and valuable parts of the whole.
Today, I carry my fractures with respect for what they have taught me. They remind me that leadership does not mean perfection, but humanity. And that the true legacy of a leader lies not in buildings, airplanes, balance sheets, or titles—but in the hearts of the people with whom he has worked.
What will remain of you once your business card no longer counts?